tonight like every time I return from the Masters, in the path of Tec Campus Mexico City to Cuernavaca, tune to 93.7 FM to listen to Rocío Brauer and Essence Women , this time, I call my attention to this thought as you hear in his voice and come home to look and found here and now wish to share with you, hoping you enjoy it and maybe, why not, it identify with the way I did:
That terrible, "I love you as a friend"
is undoubtedly the pretext used by women. At least part of the world, every time a male representative attempts to gain the favor of your heart and see that inevitably the answer to your request will be negative.
As this phrase is used indiscriminately think it's time to suspect and search for a possible explanation sobre su uso y (abuso) en este siempre intrincado mundo de las lindes sentimentales.
La primera explicación evidente es que esta frase es una respuesta inmediata ante un sentimiento de culpa. El cliché cumple aquí la importante función de sacar de apuros a quien da “la terrible respuesta” que “romperá el corazón” de aquel iluso varón que tenía una gran expectativa.
Ese discurso trillado encuentra una segunda explicación en el hecho de que nuestra sociedad, machista hasta el tuétano, ha impuesto moldes, roles y hasta frases pre-concebidas que se sueltan inconscientemente en situaciones determinadas. En este contexto la mujer se ve obligada a otorgar “una explicación”, a justification for its refusal so as not to be as a "treacherous", "bad people", "cruel" and "no heart" with so many waltzes, poems, and boleros they have been immortalized to this day.
Nietzsche himself has a curious phrase that sums up this thinking: "when the woman hates the man has to fear it, because deep in his soul the man is just evil but in the depths of his soul woman is bad "and if we continue this pattern, she is horrified to give a" no "to dry and is in dire need to find a consolation prize for unlucky and so keep her with tilde the known adjectives.
can also add to this explanation, the fact that in these days of consumerism, from 2 x 1, the added value of 50% and telephone solicitations, offered "friendship" as the soap that comes with toothpaste for the same price. In the end, this position is indicative of the deep contempt that these days you have to friendship making an optional category, second hand, almost like the spare tire in case of emergencies.
Indirectly you say to the person "because you can not have my love, at least be content with my friendship." Of course, what is not said is usually impossible. Because friendship "authentic" and has worked with other people, with whom we have shared many experiences in common shares at that time has become our "friends."
Therefore, tell this gentleman, "I love you as a friend" is a farce larger than the Tower of Babel, because the apparent circumstances make it impossible for the healthy exercise of friendship. In any case the solution of our conspicuous women face a dilemma of this magnitude should be simply: sincerity.
Instead of nicking and fuck over the concept of friendship should take courage and say something like, "I tell you NO, just because you're an idiot because I do not like, because we have nothing in common, because you're ugly and I pretty, because you are strawberry and I rock, etc, etc, etc ".
Thus I think we would avoid more confusion, and the way we undermine the value of friendship and of itself and charge its own problems ...
It's just a reflection on a daily reality in the complex emotional world of man ...
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