After a while I was able to listen to Rocío Brauer in Stereo Joya 93.7 program "Scent of a Woman", which I remind you, it can also be heard in Cuernavaca on 96.5 FM "Stereo World." .. I liked the thought of last night, and so now I share with you, I found it here
The language of love
There are moments in life when we are shy to express the love we feel. Perhaps for fear of embarrassing the other person or embarrass ourselves, we hesitate to say "I love you" and try to communicate the idea with other words ...
say "Beware" "Do not drive fast," "Be good" But in reality, these are different ways to say "I want ..."," You are the most important to me ...", "I care what happens to you ... "" No I want you bad ...", etc.
Sometimes we are so weird. The only thing we want to say and the only thing we say is the only thing I do not say. And yet, because the feeling is real and the need to say is so strong, we use other words and signs to say what we really mean.
And many times the meaning never communicated at all, and the other person feels ignored or perhaps not so dear ...
Therefore, we must LISTEN LOVE in the words that other people tell us, sometimes explicit words are necessary, but often is more important how things are said ...
affectionately A nickname that carries more affection and love that feelings are expressed so disingenuous.
An impulsive hug or a kiss say "I LOVE YOU", even when the words say something different. Any expression of concern of a person on the other says "I love you."
expression is sometimes vulgar, sometimes even cruel. Sometimes we watch and listen very carefully to the love which contain ... But very often there, beneath the surface. A mother
can scold his son constantly about his grades or for not cleaning his room. The son may hear only the nagging, but if you listen carefully, you hear the love underneath the nagging. His mother wants him to do the right thing, to be successful.
Unfortunately, his concern and love for his son emerge from his lecture. But is love
A daughter returns home late, after their leave, and her father confronts her with bitter words. The child can only hear the anger, but if you listen carefully, you hear the love under the anger. "I was worried about you ..." the father says, "because I care, because I love you and because you are important to me ..."
We say "I LOVE YOU" in many ways: with birthday gifts, with little notes drawn, with smiles and sometimes tears. Sometimes we show our love when we remain silent, without saying a word, and sometimes even speaking sharply.
show our love sometimes by impulsiveness. Many times we have to show love by forgiving someone who has not heard the love that we have tried to express.
The problem of listening to Love is not always understand the language of love that the other person is using.
A girl can use tears or emotions to say what he means, and her boyfriend may not understand because she expected to speak in the language him.
Therefore, we must strive to really listen to Love The problem with our world is that people rarely listen to each other. Hear the words, but not heard in the actions that accompany those words or facial features.
O people only hear the rejection or misunderstanding. They see the love that is there, beneath the surface, even when the words are bitter ...
We need to hear the love in those around us ... If you listen carefully, we discover that we are much more loved than we think.
listen to Love and find that, after all, the world is a very loving ... LOVE is happy, makes us laugh, makes us mourn, makes us sing, it makes us sad, it makes us look for a reason, makes us ask, give us, but above all, makes us LIVE.
is not the presence or absence of people that makes the difference, because a person can not be lonely even when you're alone.
Sometimes it is good to be alone. But that does not make us lonely. It is a matter of being present with someone. The matter is to be present for someone.
So remember: If you love someone, tell them. Remember to always say what you feel. Never be afraid to express yourself.
Take this opportunity to tell someone what it means to you. Seize the day and have no qualms. And most important: Stay close to friends and family, because they have helped me become the person you are today and that is most important.
Make a difference in your day and theirs. The difference between expressing love and the bitterness is that resentments linger sometimes more ...
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